Resources for Parents

I’ve discovered a great resource for parents who are struggling to communicate in a compassionate way with their ornery children! (And they are all ornery sometimes!) It’s the website of Lori Petro,

Lori has a series of brief YouTube videos in which she discusses how to give empathy to children when they are acting in ways you wish they wouldn’t– from fighting with siblings, to whining, to refusing to do a task, refusing to go to bed, hitting others… And she always gives great empathy to the parent, as well!

Lori also has a set of “Conscious Communication cards,” which I love, because they are organized by the typical words a parent might say, such as “Hurry up” or “Do your chores,” along with the frequently used guilt trips, demands, and judgments. Below that is a set of suggestions for new ways to approach the problem, using empathy, curiosity, validation, and compassion. Fostering connection!